July 2008
Well this is a first…huh, you want me to help you ppppplan our vacation? Heck, I have helped to map out a route, suggest places where I would like to go, or say some day I want to go to this place… or prepare for a vacation before but never – not ever… really – ppplan to this extent. Whoa, I’m not the one who is driving here – just the passenger – my plans are the same as the driver. Yeah, I know that Emory and Ed have been busy at work and didn’t seem interested in this type of trivial work anyway (planning our vacation), so Kathy invited me over to her house on a cold, rainy day in July to help her finalize our upcoming vacation. Kathy all ready had some plans-in-the-works but as far as the particulars, she needed to complete most of those minor… uh…details…..
Kathy is the type of person who can throw a few things together and in five minutes have a whole suitcase packed for a three-week vacation. It takes me ten tries and then I forget half the things I need even though I had made lists from previous trips. She has this incredible knack for planning and then executing, finding great deals, and making sure everyone’s needs are met (even though we are all adults and should be taking care of ourselves) during a trip. This is all completed the old fashioned way – via the telephone. However, she just very recently received a laptop and is all ready in the process of learning how to use a computer as well as map-out our days, times, and mileage with the help of Yahoo Maps. Kathy, in fact, had to show me how Yahoo Maps program works. So, we will find out soon enough if this program does what it is designed to do.
So in less than a week to go, things are shaping up. I, personally, am not comfortable at making plans. In fact, it down right scares me to make exact plans. I call plans my wishes, goals, desires, wants, dreams, hopes or the closest thing I will say are “so-called plans. I’ve had too many variables come at me during my years so I leave plans up to God, Ed, or Kathy Wolf… and I am very comfortable with that arrangement. (Did I hear someone say she needs therapy??? Well, duh!!!) There are a few times during this type of vacation when you actually need to “plan” rather specifically. On one hand, we had to “time” and then “reserve” our: two Atlantic Ocean passenger/vehicle ferry rides, our one day and night stay near the Bay of Fundy where there should be a full moon so we can watch the tides at their peek, find two rooms in north-central Newfoundland where there is a very popular salmon festival going on for five days, and then on other hand be prepared for the usual ”oopsie” that happens now and again that delays forward progress. Yes, you could say we had to make some definite decisions and do it soon. Yep, I agree, Kathy made some great plans.
So we will embark on a new adventure. The bike has been prepped, passports are packed, reservations have been made, Dramamine has been purchased, and sunglasses have been repaired. We are as set and organized as we can be……….…I think.
Here’s to you my family and friends. Say a prayer and send a wish to keep us all safe…uh, …and throw in a good thought or two mainly so “we” don’t kill each other. All four of us will be together for two and a half weeks. This is a first for Ed and me – traveling this far and long with another couple. Don’t be concerned for us - Ed has been and is used to dealing with me and if he hasn’t killed me from “togetherness” - yet – it is highly unlikely it is not going to happen – but let’s hope that Emory and Kathy can handle…. little ol’ high-maintenance, anxious to plan anything, …………………me.